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Is Your Life a Nightmare or Fairytale? Choose Your Adventure

Have you ever said any of the following (maybe even just in your head!)?“He’s/she’s not my soulmate.”“I can’t believe I married this person, what was I thinking??”“Pretty sure I should have married someone more….”No?  How about this one, “He’s/she’s the PERFECT one for me!”  (then lucky you!) Sadly, I spent way too much time over …

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Do You Drive Like You Own the Whole Freeway? Why it’s so Important to Stay in Your Lane

When I was fourteen years old, our family was making a move from Arizona to Utah.  My dad was driving the big old moving truck and my mom drove our family van, which meant that my brother Eric, who had recently turned 16, needed to drive one of our cars. He and his friend and …

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Listen Less, Talk More

Listen less and talk more.  No really, I know what you’ve heard.  You’ve been told to talk less and listen more, and this is very good advice when we are communicating with other people. But the conversation I am talking about here is the one you are having with yourself! I know you and I know the …

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Practice Makes More

One of the things I heard a lot as a kid was, “Practice makes perfect.”  I think this is an idea that people came up with in order to inspire work ethic, to help us produce something great, perhaps even extraordinary.  I remember going to a concert of a local artist as a teenager and …

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