“What if….?” Does this question swim in your brain and cause you stress? Do you worry about all of the possible things that could go wrong? You’re not alone and boy can I relate! This showed up big time with me and the subject of motorcycles in our family.First, you should know I have major …
Do you get defensive? One of the worst feelings we can experience is defensiveness. You know that feeling… the one where you are suddenly hot with anger and on guard because someone said something to hurt your feelings? Why does it hurt? Words don’t hurt until we give them meaning, -meaning WE have a thought …
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“It amazes me that women look at the sky and say, “WOW- God is so amazing!” but then look in the mirror and think “ugh.’’ -As if He didn’t make both.”Oh how I LOVE this quote! I posted it on my FB page recently and I had many responses and a ton of shares. …
Have you ever said any of the following (maybe even just in your head!)?“He’s/she’s not my soulmate.”“I can’t believe I married this person, what was I thinking??”“Pretty sure I should have married someone more….”No? How about this one, “He’s/she’s the PERFECT one for me!” (then lucky you!) Sadly, I spent way too much time over …
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Trust. What is trust, and what role does it play in our relationships? This is something that has been on my mind and heart this week as I coached a beautiful gal whose husband struggles with a pornography addiction.She asked the question, “How can I possibly trust him now?”Most of us think that trust is something …
Man it’s hard to be wrong! Do you hate it as much as I do?… well, as much as I used to anyway! It’s funny and I never thought I’d say this, but I actually love it when I’m wrong now… but that’s a whole different story… This is something I’ve been doing a lot …
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No matter who you are, there’s a good chance that you, or someone you love, would like to feel more confident. So today I want to share four quick tips with you, to help us all feel more confidence right away. Do me a favor? Please share this with someone you love, who needs …
I was recently at the Dentist for my 6 month cleaning (no cavities, yay me!😂). I was chatting with my cute hygienist, (they are always so cute right?) who was telling me about her recent engagement and her up-coming wedding. When the dentist joined us, he said to her, “Hey, you know Jane is a …
What do we do when we want different things? I have the best little tool for you today! Does this ever happen with your honey? You really want to go to a wedding, he really wants to go to a game. What do you do? Perhaps you want to volunteer for an event, but your …
Welcome Baby Girl! This past week has been one for the records in our family. We got to enjoy our darling grandsons for a few days, while our daughter and her husband welcomed our precious new grand-daughter into the world. And then, the day after we returned our babies to be with their parents and …
Never before in the history of my lifetime, have I seen so much disagreement. And friends, we’re not good at it! With the pandemic, the BLM movement, riots, protests, the election and political / religious views, there is so much discord it can be absolutely deafening. Wear masks? Start school? Stand for the flag? Vote for____ …
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Listen less and talk more. No really, I know what you’ve heard. You’ve been told to talk less and listen more, and this is very good advice when we are communicating with other people. But the conversation I am talking about here is the one you are having with yourself! I know you and I know the …
